AR Rahman talks about not giving in to carnal needs like ‘violence and sex’ in his first appearance post divorce with Saira Banu |

AR Rahman recently talked about promoting musical theatre in India at the International Film Festival of India (IFFI) in Goa. During the masterclass, he discussed how music affects people’s lives and suggested that instead of focusing on temporary pleasures, people can turn to music for healing.
Rahman discussed mental health, mentioning that many people struggle with issues like depression due to a sense of emptiness. He believes this void can be filled through storytelling, philosophy, and entertainment that heals without people even realizing it. He emphasized that there’s much more to life than just fulfilling basic desires like violence and sex.

Earlier this year, AR Rahman opened up about overcoming suicidal thoughts during a talk with Oxford Union students. He recalled how his mother had once told him, “When you live for others, you won’t have these thoughts.” Rahman described this advice as life-changing, explaining that living selflessly gives life meaning. He emphasized that acts of kindness, like composing for someone, writing, or even sharing food, can help people keep going. He also shared that the uncertainty of the future holds the possibility of something extraordinary, which keeps him hopeful and motivated, even during times when he feels stuck in a repetitive cycle.

In the same conversation, Rahman shared his thoughts on spirituality, acknowledging that everyone goes through dark times. He explained that life is a brief journey; we are born, and eventually, we leave. He pointed out that where we go after life is uncertain and depends on each person’s beliefs and imagination.
AR Rahman and his wife of 29 years, Saira Banu, recently announced their separation.